When does the “weekend” start and end for child visitation/possession schedules?

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In Texas, when parties have a Standard Possession schedule, their visitation usually follows a normal schedule. Those schedules are detailed in Texas Family Code 153.312.

In a Standard Possession Schedule, the Non-Primary parent will have the 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekends of the month. When does a “weekend” start? The Family Code specifies that weekends start on the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Fridays at either school dismissal or 6:00pm. Both options are available under the code and so it is important for parents to check their specific court orders for what time was selected in their case.

Weekends “end” on the Sunday night at 6:00pm (or when school resumes on Monday morning) after the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Fridays. Both options are available under the code and so you should check your court orders for which ending time was selected for your case.

View a month calendar and follow the Fridays down to count the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Fridays of each month. That means that for weekends like Friday, Jan 31, 2025, that Friday is technically the 5th Friday in January, so a parent would get Friday, Jan 31, 2025, and return the child(red) on Sunday, February 2, 2025. That also means that the following Friday, Feb 7, 2025, is now the 1st Friday in February. So a non-primary parent would have the child(ren) two weekends in a row.

There is always confusion when a month has that rare 5th Friday and so the non-custodial/non-primary parent has two weekends in a row. It’s important to remember that you follow the Fridays of the month, not the full weekends. 1st Friday, 2nd Friday, and 5th Fridays are how to calculate weekends in a Texas Standard Possession Schedule.

Texas Standard Possession Schedule

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What is a “Standard” or “Expanded Standard” custody schedule?

Texas Family Code 153.311 begins the Texas possession schedule. The following sections detail out what exchanges dates/times are used in a Texas Possession schedule. These sections outline what possession and access schedule (AKA visitation schedule), is in the child(ren)’s best interests. Judges start from this schedule as a baseline. Judges tend not to deviate from it unless some part of it is unworkable due to a parent’s or child’s schedule, or there are other reasons why a deviation from the standard schedule is in the child’s best interest.

Typical reasons why a standard schedule might not be in a child’s best interests would be if a parent’s job has an unusual schedule, the parties agreed to a shared custody schedule going forward, or the parties have a history of a more unique/shared schedule in the past that’s been working for the child(ren).

Healthcare workers, first responders, workers in the airline/travel industry, or food service workers usually cannot do a standard schedule as their work schedules are so varied. It’s hard to stick to a standard custody pattern if your job schedule is all over the place or you work when children would not be in school/daycare.

When parties agree to a more shared-custody schedule then a Judge would not require they follow a standard schedule. Week on, week off or a 2-2-5 schedule are used by some parents to equalize the school-year weeks or to share the child-care duties between the parents. If parties agree to a unique/shared schedule then a Judge usually will not impose a standard schedule.

A shared custody schedule is something Judges will consider, even in a contested case, but they require a lot of good coordination and respectful communications between the parents. Homework folders, class projects, sports practices/games, extracurricular dates, all need a good level of organization between the two houses. If parties are unable to get along, or one party’s schedule has a lot of travel/variations, then a shared custody schedule might not work. Judges do not want to setup a schedule just for it to be unworkable and then the parties are back to fighting or back in court.

In the end, a visitation schedule is very fact-dependent on what’s going on between the parties, the ages of the child(ren), work schedules, extracurriculars, and other factors. Speaking with a local attorney who is familiar with your case’s courts, judges, and specific factors can inform you of what options are available in your case.